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Managing a home as a busy mom can feel like an endless battle against chaos—laundry piles, scattered toys, and never-ending dishes. As a homeschooling mom of 12 running a freelance writing business, I’ve been there. My house used to be a whirlwind of clutter until I discovered home management strategies that tamed the mess and restored my sanity. In this post, I share 15 home management tips for busy moms to help you stay organized, save time, and find peace in 2025—whether you’re juggling homeschooling, work, or both!

1. Put Your Home on Auto-Pilot
Decision fatigue is real when you’re a mom. To avoid feeling overwhelmed by daily tasks, automate as much as possible. In our home, we use:
- Morning Chores: Each child has assigned tasks (e.g., making beds, feeding pets).
- Table Chores: Post-meal cleanup duties rotate weekly.
- 15-Minute Cleanups: Quick family tidying sessions 1–2 times daily.
- Laundry Duty: Assigned kids cycle laundry daily to prevent pile-ups.
Every July, I assign chores for the year and train my kids during summer. By August, our routine runs smoothly without me micromanaging. For example, my 13-year-old handles laundry like a pro, freeing me to focus on writing or homeschooling.
Pro Tip: Create a chore chart to visualize tasks and to help avoid micromanaging.
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2. Set a Timer for Quick Wins
Starting a cleaning task can feel daunting, but a timer makes it manageable. Commit to just 15 minutes of cleaning—set a timer and go! You’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish, especially if you all work together.
Gather the family in one room, assign tasks (e.g., picking up toys, wiping surfaces), and race the clock. Often, you’ll keep going once the momentum kicks in.
Try This: Create a music playlist to keep you moving. I have Danger Zone as the final song on our list – it gets us all in the cleaning zone!
3. Find a System That Works for You
There’s no one-size-fits-all for home management. I clean a little each day to stay on top of things, but you might prefer:
- Weekly Deep Cleaning: Dedicate a few hours one day to tackle everything.
- Zone Cleaning: Assign family members specific areas (e.g., kitchen, living room).
- Daily Micro-Tasks: Break chores into 10-minute daily chunks.
Experiment to find what fits your family’s rhythm. Get everyone on board to ensure success—when my kids know their roles, our home runs like a well-oiled machine.
4. Declutter Regularly
Too much stuff makes tidying harder. We declutter twice a year, ensuring every item has a dedicated place.
For a quick win, you can set a 15-minute timer and tackle one area (e.g., a closet or toy bin). Donate or recycle what you don’t need and throw away anything that’s broken. A clutter-free home is easier to manage and feels more peaceful.
Read More: How to Declutter With Kids in the House
5. Conquer the Laundry Monster
With 12 kids, laundry can spiral out of control. My secret? Just do the laundry. There is no special system or hands-off way to get it done. So make it a point to process at least a couple of loads a day from start to finish—wash, dry, fold, and put away.
In our current house, we have a family closet for the first time ever. That’s been a tremendous help, as almost all the laundry gets put away in the same room as the washer and dryer.
To streamline even more, we use BoxLegend Clothes Folders (kid and adult sizes) to make folding fun and uniform. Even my young kids enjoy folding with those!
Tip: Teach kids to cycle laundry early—it’s a life skill and a time-saver!

6. Meal Plan Like a Pro
Meal planning saves time and reduces stress. Back in 2013, I created an annual meal plan that’s been a game-changer for over a decade. Each summer, my kids and I plan:
- Weekly Meals: Fixed breakfast, lunch, and snacks (e.g., Monday: biscuits & gravy, pepperoni quesadillas, garlic pretzels).
- Themed Dinners: Rotate 4–5 options per theme (e.g., Monday’s “American Night” includes hamburgers or meatloaf with sides like mashed potatoes or salad).
I shop monthly for staples and weekly for perishables, eliminating last-minute dinner stress.
Download: Get my Free Annual Meal Planner to streamline your meals!
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7) Use a Flexible Block Schedule
Rigid schedules failed me—life with 12 kids is too unpredictable. Instead, I use a flexible block schedule with chunks like morning chores, homeschooling, meals, and evening cleanup. If plans shift, I rearrange blocks and communicate changes to the kids. This keeps us productive without stress.
Learn More: The Best Work at Home Mom Schedule
8. Write Everything Down
Free your brain from mental clutter by writing down tasks, ideas, and appointments. I used to use the Clever Fox Planner for:
- Calendar: Track deadlines and events.
- Brain Dumps: Jot down all tasks in the dot-grid section.
- Daily To-Do Lists: Prioritize 3–5 realistic tasks.
But in 2025, I switched to the Home Planner from Passionate Penny Pincher. I love it even more! But regardless of what planner you prefer, pick one and write stuff down! This simple habit keeps me organized and focused.
9) Enlist Your Kids
Chores teach kids responsibility and lighten your load. Start age-appropriate tasks early:
- Toddlers: Pick up toys, toss laundry into the dryer.
- Elementary Kids: Make beds, wash dishes, sweep floors.
- Teens: Cook meals, mow lawns, cycle laundry.
Train them gradually to build confidence. My kids’ help is why our home stays manageable and we can get it company-ready in just a few minutes.
10) Outsource When Possible
You don’t have to do it all. In the past I’ve outsourced tasks like creating Pinterest graphics to focus on writing and family. At home, consider hiring help for tasks you dislike (e.g., deep cleaning) if your budget allows. It’s a game-changer for reducing stress.
11. Prioritize Self-Care
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Schedule 15–30 minutes daily for self-care—read a devotional, take a walk, or enjoy a quiet coffee. I love to start mornings with prayer, Bible reading, and coffee on our porch. It helps me feel charged up enough to tackle the day.
Read more: 7 Tips to Make Time for Self-Care as a Busy Mom
12. Eliminate Bottlenecks
Inspired by My Little Pony’s Applejack, I frequently look for inefficiencies in our routine. For example, I noticed laundry lingered on the folding station and then took forever to deal with, so we switched to folding each load immediately and it helped so much. Ask your kids for ideas—they often spot bottlenecks you miss.
Read More: Eliminating Bottlenecks in a WAHM Routine
13. Avoid Procrastination
Tackle small tasks immediately to prevent them from piling up. I knock out quick chores (e.g., wiping counters) during downtime. Crossing them off feels liberating and keeps the house under control.
14. Let Go of Perfection
Some days, the house will be messy, and that’s okay. As a mom of 12, I’ve learned to embrace the chaos and focus on moments with my kids. Let go of perfection to enjoy the season you’re in.
15. Reevaluate Seasonally
Home management is a journey. Each season, review what’s working and tweak what’s not. I adjust our chore chart and meal plan quarterly to fit our family’s evolving needs.
Take Control of Your Home in 2025
These home management tips for busy moms have transformed my chaotic home into a haven of order (most days!). Whether you’re a WAHM, homeschooler, or both, you can create a system that works for your family. Start with one tip—like setting a timer or meal planning—and build from there.
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Lisa Tanner is a former teacher turned homeschooling mom with 11 kids. She's also a successful freelance writer. Lisa enjoys helping other busy moms find time to start and grow a side hustle of their own.